As we enter the season of Advent, many parents are wondering what traditions they can begin with their toddlers and young children, so that Christmas becomes more than simply a time to receive gifts. Here are some of the toddler-friendly things that some of my friends do in anticipation of Christmas.

1. Teach generosity and gift-giving. When a friend of mine was growing up, her parents made Christmas a time of clearing and giving. Each child was encouraged to go through their old toys and clothes and look for items they were prepared to give away. Their family would make an annual trip to a nearby orphanage to drop off their donations. An officemate of mine encourages something similar with his young son, and urges his son to give away the toys he no longer plays with.

2. Read the Christmas story. My son has two books about the first Christmas: "Christmas in the Manger" by Nola Buck and Felicia Bond, and "The Brightest Star" by Alyssa Satin Capucilli. Both are great for toddlers, and we've been reading them to my son these past few weeks.

3. Listen to carols. Christmas is a time for carolling, and many toddlers and young children love music. You can contact your parish or church to find out if any choirs will be having carolling concerts over the season. And while you're at it, you can teach your children some carols as well!

4. Christmas crafts. Decorating the home is a great opportunity to involve young children. Children can help make an Advent or Christmas wreath, or they can make decorations for the tree. With kraft/manila paper and rubber stamps, even the youngest toddlers can make homemade Christmas wrappers for your gifts. Older children can make Christmas cards.

Photo by Alex Bruda.

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